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Protection orders: step by step

Who can apply under the Domestic Violence Act, what counts as domestic violence, what happens in what order, and what a court can order.

Last updated:
14 November 2026
Checked against the law:
14 November 2026

The short answer

A protection order is a court order that tells someone to stop. Under the Domestic Violence Act you can apply at a magistrate's court, in person or electronically, and urgently outside court hours. If the court is satisfied you need protection now, it must issue an interim order without the other person being told first. It takes effect when it is served on them.

If you are in danger now, call the police on 10111. Other lines are on the crisis lines and protection orders page. Plainly is not an emergency service.

At a glance

Where
A magistrate's court
Lodged with the clerk of the court, or sent to the court's electronic address (section 4).
When it is urgent
Outside court hours too
An urgent application can go directly to the court on any day, at any hour (section 4).
Who can apply
You, or someone for you
A child can apply without a parent's consent (section 4).
When it starts to protect
When it is served
An interim order takes effect once it has been served on the other person (section 5).

Does the Act cover your situation

Two things must be true: a domestic relationship, and domestic violence.

A domestic relationship is any one of these (section 1)

  • You are or were married, under any law, custom or religion
  • You live or lived together as a couple, whatever your sex
  • You are the parents of a child, or share responsibility for one
  • You are family by blood, marriage or adoption
  • You are or were engaged, dating or in a romantic or sexual relationship, however short
  • You share or shared a home in a close relationship

Domestic violence is wider than physical harm (section 1)

  • Physical or sexual abuse
  • Emotional, verbal or psychological abuse
  • Economic abuse
  • Intimidation, harassment or sexual harassment
  • Coercive or controlling behaviour
  • Damage to property
  • Abuse of an older person, or of someone close to you
  • Exposing a child to domestic violence
  • Coming into your home, workplace or place of study without your consent, where you do not share it

The conduct must harm you, or give you reason to believe that it may.

Step by step

  1. Apply

    Who:
    You, or someone acting for you
    Where:
    The clerk of the court, or the court's electronic address
  2. The court considers it

    Who:
    The magistrate
    How long:
    As soon as reasonably possible
  3. The interim order

    Who:
    The court
  4. It is served

    Who:
    The court's process
  5. The return date

    Who:
    Both of you
    How long:
    At least 10 days after service
  6. The final order

    Who:
    The court

What a court can order

  • Stop

    Section 7(1)

  • Stay away

    Section 7(1)

  • Keep paying for the home

    Section 7(3)

  • Emergency money

    Section 7(4)

  • The children

    Section 7(6)

  • Weapons

    Sections 7(2) and 9

  • Your things, and your address

    Sections 7(2) and 7(5)

A court may not refuse an order only because you could use another legal route (section 7(7)).

If the order is broken

  1. Go to the police

    Who:
    You
  2. The police act

    Who:
    A police officer
  3. A charge

    Who:
    You

What the police must do

When domestic violence is reported, or at the scene, a police officer must help you as you need, including arranging shelter and medical treatment, and must give you and explain a notice that sets out your rights, in the official language you choose where that is reasonably possible (section 2).

What goes wrong

  • Thinking it only covers hitting

    Worth checking: the list in section 1: control, money, threats and harassment all count.

  • Believing you are protected before it is served

    Worth checking: whether, and when, the order was served on the other person.

  • Missing the return date

    Worth checking: the date written on the interim order.

  • Losing the warrant

    Worth checking: where your copy is kept, and who else knows.

  • Waiting for another case to finish first

    Worth checking: whether to apply now.

What to gather

If you can do so safely

  • Your ID
  • The other person's full name, and their home and work addresses if you know them
  • Dates and a short description of what happened, most recent first
  • Messages, photographs, medical reports or a police case number
  • The names of anyone who saw or heard it
  • Whether there is a firearm or other weapon

What this means for you

An application is made without the other person knowing, it can be made at any hour when it is urgent, and the court must act if you need protection now. What the order says depends on what you ask for, so the list of what a court can order is worth reading before you apply.

Sources

Every legal statement in this guide comes from one of these. We checked each statement against its source. A legal practitioner has not reviewed this guide.

  1. Domestic Violence Act 116 of 1998, sections 1 to 9 (consolidated to 3 April 2024)
  2. Plainly crisis lines

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